As with the other aspects of life, you will have more success if you follow the rules of the game and treat other people with respect. Some people may not realize these rules but in the end it will mean the difference between you getting the date and continuing to be single.
If you find an attractive picture online, it is ok to tell the person that you think they are nice looking. However looks are not everything. If that is all that you have to say online, then it is going to be better not to say anything at all. Read the person’s profile so that you can say something more than just a comment about their looks.
You can read the profile in all situations. Always look at a person’s “My perfect date” section to see what he or she is going to be interested in. Most people are looking for others within a certain age range and distance from home. They might also have preferences about children, smoking, religion, looks, race, and sexual preferences. If you are 33 and someone online is looking for a date between 20 and 28, he or she is not looking for you so you need to pass them by.
Do not send an initial email if you did not read the profile. Ask general questions like “How are you?” and “What can you tell me about yourself?” can be annoying. Be more specific and ask the other person questions that can be answered in an email back to you and your questions will show her your personal interests.
The most important thing is if another person is not interested, move past them. Sometimes people will not answer your messages on purpose. This is a very common and acceptable way of showing you have no interest in the online world. Do not repeatedly send messages that ask a person if they got your previous message. They got them and they are simply not interested. If someone writes you back and indicated that there is no chemistry for him or her, let the issue go.
There are millions of other profiles for you to pursue and someone is going to reply. Writing back to that person and telling them that they are close-minded, mean, or something unpleasant is not going to help and it is against the websites rules. Use your common sense and do not do or say anything that you would never do or say in real life. Online dating can be more fun for everyone if you follow the etiquette rules.
EGNLISH TO INDO
Siapa sih yang tidak pernah mendengar situs kencan online? Seiring dengan perkembangan teknologi dan zaman, kencan melalui online sudah merupakan sesuatu yang tidak asing lagi.
Ketika kalian tertarik dengan foto yang dipasang oleh seseorang, tidak ada salahnya kalian memuji dia, tetapi apakah paras wajah cantik saja cukup?
Kenali orang tersebut lebih detail melalui profilnya untuk mengetahui kriteria yang ia inginkan dari pasangan. Apabila kriteria kalian sesuai, mulailah mengirimkan surat untuk mengenal dia lebih dalam.
Apabila orang tersebut merespon surat kalian, ini merupakan langkah awal yang baik. Dan selanjutnya, itu tergantung kalian bagaimana kalian menyikapinya